Life Tips – Consistency

Consistency - The Key to Success 

“It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives. It's what we do with consistency.”
― Anthony Robbins

Consistency, a word that gets over looked a lot but at the same time is so vital to accomplishing our goals. Whether its weight loss goals, business goals or simply family health. Consistency is needed, the ability to do the right things over and over again the right way. I want this to blow your mind. By the time your done reading this, I hope you perceive your goals differently. I want to give you two analogies about consistency that will challenge the way you might look at the details. 

Details Matter 

Imagine with me, if you will, a painting. Starry night for example. Now, when you see this amazing piece of art, most see it for what it is , a starry night. I however take a much deeper look. Have you ever stopped and considered every stroke made in that painting? All the time put in thinking about the contrasts, the light colors, the dark colors. What about the curves, the different kind of strokes made over and over again? Vincent Van Gogh knew the details make the masterpiece. He knew the consistency needed to make the final piece of art come to life.  Its pointless to have a goal and not consider the small things it will take to get there. Weighing your food at every meal. Going through your morning checklist when you open up the shop. With Persistence hitting a goal is possible but without Consistency, you will not keep it. 

Understanding Growth

Being as I am a bodybuilder I want to talk about gaining muscle. Muscle growth is not made from going to the gym and having one workout and calling it a week. It takes work, A LOT of work. There is no once a week or choosing not to eat. It is an absolute grind that requires consistent effort. Notice as well that it's not just showing up, you have to be consistent with. The intensity, the eating and the muscle mind connection. I could go on and on about different little things that cause the final result. So many people want to sweat a little, do a weight that is heavy enough to make them gasp for air or maybe even scream a little. Are you willing to do that every day? Are you willing to throw an extreme level of intensity at your goals everyday? Are you willing to do it again and again and again regardless of whats going on around you? What are you willing to do to get your goals.  Results in life do not come from lottery tickets, that is luck. Results come from the grind. The willingness to put in the effort day in and day out regardless of how you feel or what is going on around you.

I'm going to tell you something I tell my clients. If you are not willing to put in the day to day effort, you do not really want it. Do you want to know what it takes to achieve your goals? Your ability to push past barriers, to set schedules and follow through or to follow your macros to the gram. The willingness to stick to your plan no matter what is going on around you. Can you be consistent ? Do the little things matter to you? What are you willing to do over and over and over again to get what you want ? 

“One bulb at a time. There was no other way to do it. No shortcuts--simply loving the slow process of planting. Loving the work as it unfolded. Loving an achievement that grew slowly and bloomed for only three weeks each year.” 
― Jaroldeen Asplund Edwards, The Daffodill Principle


Jonathan Shane - DSK Coach

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Reverse Dieting

Reverse Dieting

Reverse Dieting, what is it exactly?  According to the internet, reverse dieting is gaining weight without rapidly gaining fat to allow your metabolism to gradually improve and adjust to a higher intake of calories.  I'd say that is a pretty fair definition of the word but I want to take a moment and flesh it out in much greater detail.  Why??  Because NOT taking the time to reverse out of a diet is one of the most common and most damaging mistakes I see in the health and nutrition space.  I have to assume that this mistake is made out of ignorance.  I hope to shed some light on the topic and at least offer my stance on the concept of reverse dieting.

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Who Needs Reverse Dieting?

In my opinion, everyone who has dieted down, dropped their calories, gone through a competition prep, chronically under eaten, struggled with eating disorders, struggled with their weight, doesn't have a high metabolism, or wants to know more about their body and how to optimize it with regards to their nutrition.  So, basically, everyone!  I'm sure either you or someone you know fits this description perfectly...

You're not happy with the way you look, you're holding a bit of extra fat.  You decide to do something about it and watch what you eat.  The best way to lose weight is eat less right?  So, that's exactly what you do.  You start dropping your calories bit by bit week after week.  Or, you take a much more aggressive approach and slash your calories significantly to help jumpstart things.  Before long, you're living on iceberg lettuce and miracle noodles and constantly starving.  You're not eating hardly anything and confused with why you're not dropping some serious pounds.  Sure sure, you may have lost a few lbs initially but not near as much as you would like.  You're still nowhere near your goal except now, you're hungry ALL the time!  You convince yourself that it's ok to overindulge a bit for one meal because heck, why not.  The iceberg lettuce diet isn't working anyways so what do you have to lose???  The next thing you notice, that one binge turns into two, then five, then a daily occurrence.  Before long, you're fatter than when you started and you have no idea what to do next!  Guess what, you should have reverse dieted 😉

In short, anytime you decrease your caloric intake, your body's metabolism is going to slow down.  That's not even a bad thing, it's just a thing.  It happens to the best of us so don't fret it.  However, learn to deal with it correctly.  Your body is smart, it's evolved to survive.  If you're consuming less energy, it only makes sense to down regulate your body's internal thermostat.  That is the best way of ensuring you don't die.  Your body is resilient, you can push it much harder than you may realize.  For this reason, it's ok to drop your metabolism a bit temporarily.  I literally do this every single time I go through a competition prep.  I drop my calories and my metabolism follows suite.  However, it's equally as important to ramp up your metabolism after the dieting is over. 

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When To Start Reverse Dieting

Like most things in the nutritional world, this is going to vary from individual to individual.  I personally recommend transitioning into a reverse diet immediately following a competition prep, a 90 day cut program like DSK, any kind of caloric deficit protocol really.  If you are chronically under eating I also recommend starting a reverse diet.  Now, I would be remiss if I didn't include a little blurb on how long a cutting protocol should last.  That also depends on the individual but I don't typically recommend staying in a caloric deficit for more than about 5 or 6 months.  Now, there are some outliers such as people that are incredibly overweight BUT, make no mistake, it's still not optimal for them to be chronically under eating.  What if 5 or 6 months passes and you still haven't reached your goal???  I still recommend transitioning into a reverse diet and then returning to your goal after your metabolism has had a chance to recover.  If you are going through a "cut" the right way and gradually tapering your calories as needed, you're going to eventually run out of macros.  If you continue dropping calories well beyond what is healthy or sustainable, your metabolism is basically going to shut down and you're not going to make any headway towards losing bodyfat.  In fact, your body is going to fight you and work to store as much food as it can as bodyfat because it's afraid it won't get any more caloric energy.  This is why chronically dropping calories beyond a healthy limit can do so much more harm than good. 

when to start reverse dieting

How To Reverse Diet

If you've gone through the Deeper State Keto course then you're familiar with the "Off-boarding" phase.  Off-boarding is basically the same concept of reverse dieting.  For those that haven't gone through off-boarding, let me explain how I recommend reversing out of a caloric deficit.  Before I do though, let me forewarn you...reverse dieting will very likely result in an increase on the scale.  WHAT??!!!  I know, I know, crazy right.  Why would you want to do something that is going to move you farther away from that lower weight you've been striving for.  Well, because it's absolutely necessary!  Body recomposition is a marathon, not a sprint.  You are playing the long game here.  Sacrifice a slight increase on the scale to reach the goal in the end.  If you've been dieting down for long, your body is going to assume food isn't readily available and it's going to store any surplus you give it.  This is why you can expect a slight increase in weight in the beginning.  However, after a time of caloric increase, your body will recognize that food is no longer scarce and it won't be as likely to store it as bodyfat.  That is when things start improving.  Just as decreasing your caloric intake results in a slower metabolism, increasing your caloric intake leads to a faster metabolism.  

However, this doesn't mean go out and eat everything in sight.  I recommend you take a strategic approach to your reverse dieting just as you took towards your actual dieting.  Keep the foods clean and make small, incremental changes.  Generally speaking, you can be slightly more aggressive with the reverse diet than you were with the depletion diet.  Try and increase by 50 to 150 calories week after week depending on how your body responds.  If you start to notice adverse effects, take a slightly more conservative approach.  

This increase in caloric intake is adding more fuel to the furnace.  Put that furnace to use.  Train harder, eat more, and reap the benefits of a healthier metabolism.  No matter what diet you're on, chronic under eating and long term caloric deficits are damaging to your hormones and your metabolism.  Make sure you emphasize the reverse diet and give your body time to recover and improve it's foundation.  

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The Sustainability Of Reverse Dieting

In all honesty, reverse dieting is what makes dieting sustainable in the first place.  You couldn't possibly stay in a caloric deficit indefinitely, your hormones would tank, your metabolism would shut down, your performance would plummet, eventually....you could die.  Rather than fight your body, work with it.  It's healthy to cycle your caloric intake.  Leverage periods of healthy caloric depletion to shed body fat and improve your composition.  Be excited about the opportunity to eat more and reverse out of that deficit to improve your metabolism and hormones.  If you so choose, enjoy the maintenance intake for a bit and focus on other areas of your life that need attention.  If done properly, going through these different phases is incredibly sustainable.  Each time you cycle through, your composition and metabolic baseline will improve.  You can consistently be moving the needle forward in the long game of life.  Don't think shortsightedly and damage the only body you have.  Play the long game and win!

If you're interested, below is a video I made for my YouTube video that illustrates some of these concepts.

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Staying on track through the holidays

Staying on track through the Holidays

The holiday season can be rough for many to get through when it comes to staying on track, working toward a healthier lifestyle, and focusing on macros. Remember that holidays and vacations are here for a reason. That reason is to allow us to take a step back from work, school, and other stresses to focus on our family, happiness, faith, and health. The reason we have gatherings are to spend time together as family and friends, to celebrate with the people we love the most. Gorging yourself on food should not be the thing we are drawn to. Rather, feed your body with nourishing food and feed your soul with your family.

Why we fail to stay on track

We fail to follow through or stick to the plan simply because we are weak. There is no other reason. There is always a way to track, hit the macros or simply fast. You mentally choose to eat carbs, overeat or nibble on things we know are not optimal. There are many excuses and some are really good, but is it worth it? Remember, the only person you are hurting is yourself, the only goals that are being set back are yours. Get mentally strong, grow and stretch yourself.

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Tips for staying on track during the holiday season

As mentioned above there are many ways to stay on track, I will list a few.

  • Plan ahead

  • Learn how to say no

  • Offer to bring a main dish or side (One that you are able to eat)

  • Fast through the holiday

  • Bring your own food

  • Keep it simple, Focus on the meat and light veggies

  • Dont even entertain the idea of eating what you know you shouldn't

  • Remember the reason you are at the gathering

  • Drink plenty of water

  • Stay away from alcohol

  • Eat OMAD for the day

  • Eat most of your food before gathering then get a small plate

  • Bring a small food scale (they have ones as small as a phone)

  • Make the gym a daily must, even if its at home

  • Have a partner there who understands you are trying to better yourself and can have your back

Decide what is more important

Why are you cutting? What is the reason for you focusing on your health and nutrition?  Could in be to be there, alive and healthy for the ones you are spending time with? Possibly to feel more confident in yourself? Is the reason strong enough? Find your reason and remind yourself each morning why you do what you are doing. Remind yourself that it will be worth it.

family gathering

When family & friends dont understand 

As mentioned above, know your reason. Remind people that it is your body and you are doing what you believe to be best for you and your health. If people don’t like what you are doing or eating, more than likely it is an insecurity within themselves. Most people aren’t concerned with their food, nutrition, and health. When you bring up the fact that you are taking action with yours, it makes them insecure and allows them to recognize what they could be doing for themselves. This right here is the best way you can be an example for the people you want to see healthy and happy. Be the leader in the group of family and friends. Take action and they shall follow. Most importantly stick to it for yourself. Why give up or give in now?

This Holiday season I challenge you all to stay true to the commitment you have made yourself. Be stronger than you ever knew you could be.


Crystal Love- DSK Coach

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Deeper State Carnivore – My Keto – Carnivore Experiment

Keto & Carnivore , two words used a lot in the same group of friends. While sometimes being vastly different, when put together can become something else all together. This is what I set to find out, if combining the deeper state keto high fat protocol and a meat only diet would yield results.  I was pleasantly surprised by this experience and in this post I want to share my findings with you. We will cover both what I ate and the results of this 20 day experiment, both the mental and physical aspects. 

Keto - ​Carnivore Food

Being that I am a certified foodie, making this creative wasn't so hard. The diet was made up of your basic high fat cuts of meat (pork belly , 80/20 ground beef, short ribs & rib-eye).  The photo above is a highlight of this 20 day meal plan as it was by far the best thing I ate. What you are captivated by is what I call the Carnivore Burger. Two 1/2 lb patties with goat cheese between my creation, the carnivore biscuit. You can find the recipe to the biscuit on this Instagram  link. Oh and in case your wondering, yes it is 100% meat. I played with my protein threshold a little and to my surprise it was a little higher than the standard DSK ratios (probably due to the lack of carbs). So during the experiment my ratios stayed roughly around 77%fat , 23% protein & 0% carbs. A good tip for volume if you want to give it a go is when making ground beef, pour it in into a bowl of beef broth. Take my word for it, it is very satisfying.  Week two I re-introduced eggs and butter and that was a very smooth transition without any adverse effects. I am currently going into week four and have re-introduced goat cheese and sheep milk yogurt. So far I tolerate these two things just fine. The only tip I would give is to make sure you start with nothing but meat, salt and water and add things one at a time to assess your tolerance. You would be surprised what kind of food sensitives surface when doing this type of diet.  I personally really enjoy it. I crave meat all the time now, so nothing makes me bounce around more than the though of a medium-rare steak. YUM! 

​Results 

In case you are wondering, no I did not expect to get extremely leaned out during this time frame. The fact that over the 20 day period I increased my daily caloric intake by 400 calories would make it obnoxious to make such a claim. However, the results were still very awesome! Over the 20 days I lost a total of about 10 lbs. Keep in mind that I just got off a show prep and was stuffing my face so I am 100% positive a lot of that was just built up junk. That is the point though! Look at the photo above, specifically the dip in the mid-abdominal area over the 20 day period. To me that is a clear indication of reduced gut bloat, inflammation and water retention. 

As I said before I just got off prep and if anyone one of you have experienced that, the sweet cravings can be bad. Which leads me to my next point, physiologically this is the strongest I have felt towards my food control since 6 weeks out from my show. It has blown my mind how well it reset my hormones & my mental state when it came to my relationship with food.

Finally, I want to talk about the strength improvements. Coming off a show you are very weak, its almost hard to explain. The first 14 days nothing changed, I was seeing slow increase just due to my body getting fed better and so on. Then this week something amazing happened! I was stronger on all my core lifts! To be specific I even dead lifted 405 LBS!! That was a really big deal to me for no other reason except the fact that i have not been able to do that for over a year. To be able to do it 10 weeks post- show just solidifies to me two things.

1. You don't need carbs to gain muscle

​2. Red meat and muscle gain have a strong correlation.

​Conclusion 

​Over all this was an amazing experience for me. It helped me not only record data for my Deeper State Carnivore Protocol but in the process I-

1. Reduced inflammation and over all bloat

​2. Got control over my eating and cravings

3. Hit new PR's with out ANY CARBS


So if you want to give keto - carnivore a shot , I say give it the old college try. Whats the worst that could happen? You have to eat butter covered steaks for a couple weeks. Sounds like a pretty awesome time to me!


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Dealing with Body Dysmorphia

Dealing With Body Dysmorphia

Body Dysmorphia Disorder (BDD) is a body-image disorder characterized by persistent and intrusive preoccupations with an imagined or slight defect in one's appearance. In other words pertaining to someone who overthinks and can obsess about pieces of their body. BDD tends to sneak up on people, even those who may be extremely confident. It has been said that 1 out of 50 people can suffer from this disorder.

Body dysmorphia

Symptoms Of Dysmorphic Disorder

Symptoms are  some of the following:

-Obsessing over a slight imperfection on your face, skin or hair.

-Emotional distress over the way you look

-Feeling that your appearance is too fat or even more slender than you truly are.

-Covering up your body or specific areas of yourself

-Constantly looking in mirrors or completely avoiding them

-Excessive exercise or dieting

-Continually talking negatively about your body (specific parts) or putting yourself down.

The list goes on.

The reason I am touching on this subject is because I believe many people suffer from this disorder and it is simply not talked about enough. I personally have gone through trial and error trying to correct the way I think about myself or my body.

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My Struggle With Body Dysmorphia

My quick story:

As many of you may know, I recently competed in my first ever figure bodybuilding competition. I went from 26% body fat to 12% body fat within a 6 month time period. We used this DSK protocol along with extensive exercise. I did this process in the most healthy manner and I did everything perfectly by the books. As my body fat began to shed I literally could not see the difference in the way I appeared. I knew I had lost pounds and I knew my body fat had gone down but I could not physically see any changes. I felt that my “loose skin” was fat and I would look down to see “rolls”. I could see the veins popping out of my biceps but could not understand because I simply didn’t see myself any different. I would go to the gym and pinch my stomach fat so hard to hurt myself  so I could remember why I was working so hard. The image I had of myself was beyond skewed. After my competition, I needed to gain some weight back to maintain a healthy female body fat. As I did, the dysmorphia got a tad worse. Gaining even just that healthy weight back was horrible in my mind. All I could see was so much fat. I obsessed about food, my body, my workouts, my nutrition. I’d spend hours working on my diet and workout plans. I simply couldn’t maintain this way of living. So, I asked for help and put myself out there for others to see. I changed the way I looked at myself and I chose to see beauty in the healthy weight I had gained. I look back at pictures of my competition or my prep and well up with tears. In those moments, I had no idea that's what I looked like. I am now better, not completely but always a work in progress.

Crystals Competition Picture

Body Dysmorphia Awareness

I bring this to your attention because most of you are following DSK as a simple weight loss strategy. I have seen many come and go through this program that also have suffered from BDD. I am here to bring its awareness. I am here to put its ugly face out there and give you freedom from those thoughts. Open up to someone, allow yourself grace, take a look at yourself from a larger perspective, look at how far you have come and what you have accomplished. You can do every single step right but somehow our minds still go another direction. Be confident, be strong and be willing to watch your body change as you put in the work.

“Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are”

-Marilyn Monroe


Crystal Love- DSK Coach

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